Apply to Join Our Exclusive Database

Complete the application below to be considered for inclusion in our curated network of successful and discerning singles. You are taking the first step towards meaningful and valuable connections.

At Selective Connections, we pride ourselves on creating introductions that lead to deep, lasting connections among some of the world’s most remarkable individuals. To maintain the quality of our network, we carefully screen all applicants for compatibility, character, and ambition. The application below will help us understand you, your goals, and your values.

Please complete each section thoroughly. The more we know about you, the better we can assess your eligibility and suitability for our database. Your privacy is our utmost priority, and all submitted information will be treated with complete discretion.

INSTRUCTIONS

Estimated Time to Complete: Approximately 10-15 minutes.
What You’ll Need: Recent photos, details about your lifestyle, relationship history, and preferences.
Discretion Assured: All information you provide is handled with care, ensuring privacy at every step.

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Questionnaire for Database
Membership Application

To ensure we gather the most relevant information about each applicant, the questionnaire will focus on important aspects that help us determine compatibility, shared values, and readiness for this kind of service.

1. Personal Information:

Full Name

Age

Gender

Email Address

Phone Number (optional, for direct communication purposes)

Location (City & Country)

Preferred Dating Locations (regions where you’re interested in dating)

2. Lifestyle and Background:

Profession/Career: Describe your current role and the industry you work in.

Education: What is your highest level of education?

Languages Spoken (separate each by comma)

Personal Interests and Hobbies: Describe the activities that bring you joy in your free time.

Travel Preferences: How often do you travel, and what kinds of destinations do you enjoy?

3. Relationship Preferences:

What Are You Looking For in a Partner?

Relationship Goals: Are you looking for a long-term relationship, potential marriage, companionship, etc.?

Lifestyle Preferences: Do you prefer someone with a similar lifestyle to yours?

Children: Do you have or want children in the future?

4. Values and Compatibility:

What Are Your Core Values?

What Does a ‘Meaningful Connection’ Mean to You?

How Important Are Shared Beliefs and Background?

5. Personal Presentation:

How Would You Describe Your Style?

Please Upload Recent Photos:

2 Profile Photos (clear, professional or natural):

2 Full-Length Photos (a recent, full-body picture):

Note: The photos should reflect who you are naturally—no need for heavy editing or filters. If you proceed to our paid membership, a professional photoshoot will be part of your experience to ensure you look your best.

6. Additional Information:

Meeting with Julie Spangler: Why are you interested in having a consultation with Julie?

Dating Coaching Focus: Which areas of dating do you think you need the most support in?

Any Previous Matchmaking Experience?

7. Availability and Commitment:

How Much Time Are You Willing to Dedicate to the Process?

How Soon Are You Looking to Be Matched?

8. Referrals and Recommendations:

Referral Source: How did you hear about Selective Connections?

Reference Contact (optional):

9. Privacy and Discretion Agreement:

We understand the importance of privacy and respect in this process. Please confirm your acknowledgment of our Privacy Policy and that the information provided is true to the best of your knowledge.
I agree to the Privacy Policy and understand the exclusive nature of Selective Connections.