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What is Selective Connections?
Selective Connections is an exclusive luxury matchmaking service designed to help high-net-worth individuals find meaningful and lasting relationships. Our bespoke approach combines personal attention, expert coaching, and access to an elite network of extraordinary individuals.
Who is behind Selective Connections?
Selective Connections was founded by Julie Spangler, a world-renowned matchmaker with decades of experience in creating meaningful relationships. Julie’s dedication to personal connection and her expertise in matchmaking are at the heart of everything we do.
What makes Selective Connections different from other matchmaking services?
Our service is tailored to each client, focusing on quality over quantity. We emphasize discretion, personalized coaching, and meaningful introductions that align with your values and goals. Unlike dating apps or agencies, we provide a high-touch, guided experience that takes the guesswork out of finding a compatible partner.
What is the Paid Database Membership?
The Paid Database Membership offers individuals the opportunity to join our exclusive network and receive a bespoke matchmaking experience. Membership includes a one-on-one consultation with Julie Spangler, personalized coaching, and at least one guaranteed introduction over six months.
How much does membership cost?
The Paid Database Membership is $1,500 for six months of service, including one guaranteed match and a personalized consultation with Julie Spangler.
Who can join the database?
Membership is open to individuals who align with our values and meet the high standards of our curated network. Potential members must complete an application process and participate in an initial consultation to ensure compatibility with our service.
Can I extend my membership after six months?
Yes, membership can be extended for an additional fee. Extensions can include continued introductions, coaching, and access to our exclusive network.
How do you find matches for me?
We conduct an in-depth search using our extensive network, direct recruitment, and referrals. Matches are based on your preferences, values, and goals, ensuring compatibility at every level. Every candidate is vetted to meet the highest standards of integrity and authenticity.
What happens after I am introduced to a match?
After each introduction, we will have a feedback session to discuss your experience and refine future matches. Your feedback helps us tailor the search further, bringing you closer to finding the right person.
How many matches can I expect during my membership?
Membership guarantees one match over six months. While additional introductions are possible at our discretion, our focus is always on quality over quantity.
Are background checks conducted on potential matches?
Yes, we conduct vetting that includes Statewide Criminal and Civil Searches, as well as verification of professional, educational, and personal details. While this research is thorough, it does not constitute a full investigative background check.
How do you protect my privacy?
Privacy is one of our core values. All personal information and match details are handled with the utmost discretion. We do not share your information without your explicit consent, and our database is secure and confidential.
Will my profile or photos be shared publicly?
No. Your profile and photos are only shared with potential matches during the introduction process and are not made publicly available.
Who are the clients of Selective Connections?
Our clients are high-net-worth individuals who value quality, discretion, and meaningful relationships. They come from diverse backgrounds but share a commitment to finding a partner who complements their lifestyle and values.
What is expected of me as a member?
We ask members to communicate openly, provide timely feedback after introductions, and approach the process with honesty and a willingness to engage in meaningful connections.
Can you guarantee I will find a life partner?
While we cannot guarantee a specific outcome, we are committed to providing a high-quality, tailored experience that maximizes your chances of finding a meaningful connection. Relationships depend on mutual compatibility and effort from both individuals.
Do you offer additional services, such as coaching or retreats?
Yes. Beyond matchmaking, we offer personalized coaching to help you refine your dating approach, build confidence, and navigate the journey of finding a partner. We are also developing exclusive personal development retreats—details coming soon!
How do I apply to become a member?
You can apply for membership by completing the application form on our website. Once your application is reviewed, we will contact you to schedule a consultation with Julie Spangler.
What happens if I have questions during the process?
We are here to support you every step of the way. You can reach out to us at any time via email or phone, and we will respond promptly to address your concerns or provide guidance.