Our Philosophy
We believe that relationships should be built on shared values, mutual respect, and genuine compatibility. Guided by this philosophy, we craft introductions that go beyond surface-level connections, focusing on the deeper qualities that create lasting bonds.
DISCRETION. PERSONALIZATION. EXCLUSIVITY.
WORLD-RENOWNED MATCHMAKER JULIE SPANGLER
YOUR TRUSTED MATCHMAKER:
JULIE SPANGLER
At the heart of Selective Connections is Julie Spangler, a world-renowned matchmaker with decades of experience helping individuals find partners who align with their values, goals, and lifestyles. Julie’s passion for creating meaningful connections stems from her 20+ years in Human Resources and Marketing at Medtronic, Ecolab, and Ameriprise Financial, where she honed her expertise in understanding people’s unique needs and desires. Drawing on her undergraduate and graduate degrees in Business Administration and Human Resource Development, Julie transitioned her skills in executive recruiting and marketing into a greater purpose: helping those who wish to love, and be loved, find their perfect match.
Known for her intuition, dedication, and modern-meets-traditional approach to matchmaking, Julie combines discretion, compassion, and insight to serve a select clientele. With a 90% success rate and a decade of proven results, her greatest joy is witnessing the love stories she helps create, knowing she—and perhaps Cupid—played a role in uniting two hearts.
about selective connections
Selective Connections is for those who refuse to settle. Whether you are looking for a partner who shares your ambitions, complements your lifestyle, or values the same principles, our process is tailored to help you find exactly that. We work closely with each client, providing expert guidance and unwavering support every step of the way.
Finding the right person is one of life’s most important journeys. At Selective Connections, we are honored to help you take that step with care, confidence, and purpose. Selective Connections was born from a belief that true connection is one of life’s greatest treasures. We are more than a matchmaking service—we are your trusted partner in the journey to find a meaningful, lasting relationship. With a commitment to discretion, personalized care, and exceptional quality, we help our clients navigate the complexities of modern relationships with confidence and ease.
Julie listened carefully to what I wanted and provided me with the most suitable matches, one of which I am happy to call my wife.
JOHN C.
13+
YEARS OF EXPERIENCE
90%
SUCCESS RATE
17
MARRIAGES
10K+
COACHING SESSIONS
10K+
database members
100%
SATISFIED CLIENTS