Extraordinary Introductions

A bespoke matchmaking experience for those who seek meaningful, lasting relationships.

 

The Art Of Connection,

REIMAGINED FOR THE MODERN WORLD

Matched curated with care and precision. We create connections that transcend the ordinary.

ABOUT US

Finding the right partner is one of life’s most important journeys. Our exclusive approach blends intuition, expertise, and an extensive network of extraordinary individuals to create introductions that are deeply meaningful and aligned with your values, lifestyle, and goals.

Every match is curated with care and precision, ensuring quality over quantity. Guided by Julie Spangler, a world-renowned matchmaker, and her dedicated team, we provide unparalleled support, insight, and personal coaching to elevate your search for love.

Experience the art of connection, reimagined for the modern world.

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We connect lovely people

The Process

Discovery Consultation:

Begin your journey with a personal consultation with Julie Spangler, who will uncover your relationship goals, preferences, and aspirations.

Curated Matches:

Be introduced to extraordinary individuals who align with your values and vision for the future.

Refined Search:

Provide feedback after each introduction to refine future matches and move closer to finding your perfect partner.

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Personalized Approach

Your journey begins with a one-on-one consultation, where we explore your unique preferences, relationship goals, and aspirations. Our process is as unique as you are, ensuring every introduction is crafted to reflect your needs.

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An Exclusive Network

Gain access to a curated circle of like-minded, discerning individuals. Each member is carefully selected to ensure they meet the highest standards of compatibility, values, and lifestyle alignment.

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Expert Guidance

With decades of experience, our team provides dedicated support and expert coaching to help you navigate the nuances of building a meaningful relationship.

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Timeless Elegance, Modern Insights

We believe in creating connections that stand the test of time. By blending the sophistication of old-world matchmaking with a contemporary understanding of compatibility, we deliver an experience that is truly exceptional.

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SERVICES

 

1:1 Bespoke Matchmaking

Our signature service offers unlimited, personalized matchmaking. Every introduction is carefully curated to align with your values and relationship goals.

Database Membership

Gain access to our exclusive network and enjoy a flexible approach to love. This membership includes at least one guaranteed match from our curated database.

expert Coaching

Build confidence with expert coaching to refine your goals and enhance your dating experience. We’ll help you connect with intention and clarity.

LOVE NOTES FROM THE PAST CLIENTS

Finding love felt impossible—until now. Thanks to Selective Connections, I've met the love of my life!

TIM

Julie made me feel valued, heard, supported, and UNDERSTOOD every step of the way. Highly recommend Selective Connections!

LARRY

Professional, personal, and so worth it. They truly care about finding your soulmate.

SHANNON

Selective Connections didn’t just match me; they understood me, which I really appreciated. I’m now engaged to ‘my other half’, who I met through Selective Connections.

 

After decades of hard work leading to career success, I still ate take-out alone, longing for someone special but uninterested in bars or uncertain dating apps. Julie was discreet, understanding, hard-working, and professional. Today I’m married to the most wonderful person because of Selective Connections.

BRUCE

 

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